- ROUTINE will help someone with AD anticipate what to do next and what is expected of them. It sets boundaries that feel secure.
- RITUALS or lifelong habits should be maintained. Don’t try to break old habits. For example, if the individual never enjoyed crafts, don’t expect to involve him/her in crafts now.
- REASSESS physical health if there is a sudden behavior change. A person with AD will become more confused, agitated or hostile when a physical complaint develops. Consider constipation or a urinary tract infection, etc. as the cause of the behavior disturbance.
- REDIRECT or distract the person with AD. This can be accomplished by suggesting that it is snack time. When the person with AD asks to go home, say “in a little while, but first how about of tea and a cookie?” You will be surprised that the person will forget about leaving, at least for a little while.
- REAL questions may be difficult to figure out if the person with AD has difficulty communicating. If the individual becomes agitated, perhaps they are telling you that they need to use the bathroom. Learn to read their body language.
- RECONSIDER the behavior. Is it truly a problem? Does it present a danger for the person with AD? Or is it upsetting you? Is talking to his/her reflection in a mirror, just like it was another person, a problem? Should the mirror be covered up? Only if the person appears to be upset or frigtened by the reflection.
- RESPECT is always the appropriate attitude when caring for a person with AD. Laugh with them, not at them. Never talk about them to another person in front of them as if they are not there. And remember, a person with AD will know how you feel by your body language and tone of voice.
- REASSURE the person with AD often that you love them and will care for them. A gentle pat, stroking their hair, and holding hands all say “I care for you.” Think about how much reassurance of love you would need if you were suffering from dementia.
Distributed by:
Alzheimer’s Arkansas Programs and Services
201 Markham Center Drive
Little Rock, AR 72205
https://www.alzark.org
501-224-0021 or 800-689-6090